Under the Boardwalk – Love and the Law of Attraction

Under The Boardwalk – The Drifters (click here for your listening pleasure while you’re reading this post!)

I just finished “Live at the Beach” my 4 part teleseminar. The Hot Topic this week was “Under the Boardwalk – Love and the Law of Attraction. I wish you could have been there – great conversation, high energy and lots of aha moments. Putting it together helped me be clearer about the main ingredient of a harmonious, loving, successful relationship.

Even though it’s hard to stop blaming the people, places and things in our lives for derailing and keeping us stuck – it is so much more liberating and productive to stop being victims, to take back our power and make changes on our own internal hard-drives.

First we have to become aware of and clear our negative beliefs about relationships. These beliefs (ex: long term relationships NEVER work out, he’s only wants one thing, she only wants one thing etc…. fill in the blank with your own limiting belief here_____________….) make it unlikely that our relationships will be happy and successful.

We so often look for another person to ‘save’ us, think they will complete us and make our problems vanish.  Especially when we’re not feeling so great, we look outside for someone to make us feel better.

Abraham reminds us, “It is never possible for another person to behave sufficiently or consistently enough to keep us in balance. That’s our job. If you can accept that when you do not feel good, that it is no one else’s responsibility to bring you back to feeling good,  you will discover the freedom that is essential to your maintenance of personal joy.

Wow!  I’m all about personal joy and spreading it around and getting plugged in using my law of attraction tools and processes. I want to be all about tapping into my inner guidance system as a navigational tool.   I know that how connected I am to my own source energy  (God, higher power, intuition, gut feelings etc..) tells me how connected I am in my relationships with others. How we treat others is how we treat ourselves.

When we have our own power sources and we come together with another person who is plugged into their power source,  it’s for the purpose of co-creation. It’s not about fixing one another but of creating something new.

So the paradox is that the main ingredient of a happy, healthy, loving relationship  is our own connection with source energy. It’s an inside job. If we can get lined up inside, the outside will be a grand reflection and it will be good and make us all smile from the inside out.